They say we each have a role in this world, that we are here for a reason, for a purpose. Some may have found their purpose, but most are still searching. Why is it so hard to find out one's purpose?
They also say we each have a role in the lives of people that we meet.
Then let me ask, is the level of importance the same between people?
It is inevitable to have imbalance in the distribution of importance between people. You may think of a certain person as the most important person in your life while that person thinks that you're just dust in the wind. (Alright, that's too much but it really happens)
It really is unfair for the person who gives more importance than the other, but we can't blame the other because we can't control how the other thinks of the person.
But of course, if you were in this situation, you'd feel bad because here you are giving so much importance to a person while this person just can't seem to make mutual the feeling of importance.
Which then leads me to my question, is it right to still give your feeling of importance to a person who can't appreciate it or can't even repay it?
It's like making yourself fit into a person's life even if that person can't even notice you and your efforts.
Maybe you should give yourself a break, think about yourself, don't forget to make yourself feel important too.
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